Suddenly You will know exactly what you should be doing and where and when and how and why So if you are unsure ask spirit to show you the way and once you engage spirit the path will unfold for you.. Never be discouraged about which way you should go as spirit always has your back and as long as you can live with your choices knowing you really only answer to yourself and no one else. Spirit will hold your hand but only if you are truly 100% in your feelings . If you are walking around lying to yourself you will tell white lies to other people and spirit doesn’t like lying. Lying only delays the inevitable. So heed the cautions you get those are signs like a sick stomach, sweaty hands, anxiety, sleepless nights, excesses worrying. There probably is an entire other list to add here but my biggest stipulation is you stop lying to yourself and then to each other.